Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Ostriches, Skating and Silliness


My in-laws used to raise ostriches.  Their pen was sandwiched in between our ancient mobile hone and theirs.  I would watched them each day walk about on their long, gangly legs and then suddenly drop down, spread their wings and do this odd dance.  It was amazing to see this display of wings, feathers and fluidity come from these birds that are otherwise so awkward. 

As I've watched my kids grow and learn over the past 11 years, I have come to name each phase of their lives.  Some phases are named after a particular age-appropriate obsession (dinosaurs, dolls, blankets, etc).  Others reflect a stage or particular extracurricular interest. 

Daniel, on the cusp of turning 12, has entered the ostrich phase.  His limbs are growing so fast that he lopes around the house like an over-sized bird.  His latest obsession is running and jumping up to touch the ceiling (gotta love the popcorn ceiling raining down on the carpet) or the door jam.  Its like a good excuse to stretch those growing limbs to their fullest extent. 

As flexible and double-jointed as ever, its been amazing to watch him curl up into his bed at night and cover all those appendages with his blanket.  How he tucks them in and hunkers down is beyond me. 

And for athletics, well.....I think once he gets control of those long, lean legs and super long arms, he will find his niche.  For now, I think ostrich when I see him run.  Arms flailing about and legs outstretched.  Nothing quite going in the right direction.  But somehow he gets there...

As a mom who is trying her best to live in the present and soak up the "everyday,"  I am amazed at this boy.  He grows and learns and recreates in this body that doesn't quite fit.  Not yet, anyway.  Soon enough, those long limbs will develop muscles and carry him far away from me.  So for now, I'll enjoy the jumping, the stretching, the cuddling and the gangli-ness of it all.  For someday, it will all look just as God has planned.  For now I will enjoy the ostrich phase.  And constantly look for jeans on sale--slim, long.

On another note, we enjoyed an afternoon of ice skating in Great Falls.  The kids were real troopers on that slick surface and didn't even complain when the bruises started showing up.  You should see Taylor's knees.




And the best part of all is the encouragement and love that we gave to each other (while Jason took pictures because his ankle was bothering him)...



Later that night the kids decided they needed to bake.  Peanut Butter Chocolate Swirls were on their mind and silliness in their heart.  With no help from me, they executed this recipe quite well with no eggs or gluten...it must have been the outfits...



Look at that serious face...



Love the bandana, T!  O, yes, and the teamwork. 

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Cross Country Skiing

Since we live in a four season climate, Jason and I promised each other years ago that we would take advantage of the area throughout the year.  While I love to downhill ski, the cost is quite prohibitive for a regular outing.  So, when we moved to Montana, we sought out a good ski swap and outfitted ourselves in cross-country ski gear.  Little did we know that there were so many styles of cross country, let alone gear choices.  Once we were outfitted (Taylor started out in a sled behind us) we made a point to get out 3-4 times each year.  We tend to drive west tot he Rockies as far are we can and then ski a mountain road.  The tracks of a car seem to be a good width for our ski's, or for a more back country experience, Jason will break trail for us. 

So, on New Year's day, we took out our gear only to find that Daniel had now taken over my ski's and Taylor had moved into Daniels old boots.  It didn't deter us, though, and we enjoyed a nice outing (with me on foot) on the west fork of the Teton road. 


Now, as a woman, I would have stopped driving about 300 yards back.  However, men think differently and live on the edge, so, if you look closely, you wills ee Jason;s truck completely stuck.  "Don't worry," he said, "let's ski and then we'll dig out."  So we did...



We skied into Mills Falls campground and did a wee bit of cross-country ski downhill.  Fun!




What a good lookin' group of skiers!  We even tried to make a fire...

By days end, we were all a bit frigid and ready to head home for a nice cup of hot chocolate.


But not before digging out the truck!

Friday, January 11, 2013

Post Holiday Season Post

There is a blizzard outside today.  Actually for 2 days and maybe into number 3.  The numbers are racking up:  8-9 inches of snow, 5 degrees, 30+ mph wind, 2 kids bundled up and off to school, and 1 great husband who shoveled the drifts and packed down the driveway so I could get out.  All in all its the perfect time to blog about Christmas!

We are big Advent people around here.  Lutherans in general really like the buildup of the Advent season and then pour on the emotion on Christmas Eve as we sing "Silent Night" by candlelight.  Our family Advent preparations include a daily devotion, lighting an Advent wreath (at least every Sunday), reading Christmas books regularly, baking goodies for our friends and neighbors, cutting down a tree from the forest, and the list could go on and on.  With the kids active in school and other organizations, Christmas is also the season for parties, concerts and Christmas plays.

This year our primary baking included:
Magic Bars

Ritz Mint Cookies





Santa Cookies





Of course decorating the tree is an important occasion.  Jason and I hang the lights while the kids sort through the ornaments.  At this point, most of them are homemade or hold some special memory.  On certain years, we have a second cowboy tree.



Taylor ready for the school play

Daniel all spiffed up and ready for the play

6th Grade Band- Daniel oboe

It's amazing how far they come in a few months!

Taylor was in the chorus during the play.  She had lots of fun fiddling with her bow on the dress that Grandma made.

Daniel and Delaynie dance during the play

Searching for Mom and Dad.  Those lights are bright!



How they grow!



Taylor's favorite gift- bear hat.



Daniel's fav gift:  drafting set       


Yep, Christmas is over and New Year's Eve was spent dancing to the entertainment at Times Square (on tv.)  Overall it was a relaxing break and good family time.  We are thankful to move into a new year with health, love and plenty of energy.  Happy New Year! 

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Thoughtful Thanksgiving Preperation



When you rise in the morning,
give thanks for the light,
for your life,
for your strength. 
Give thanks for your food
and the joy of living. 
If you see no reason to give thanks,
the fault lies in yourself. 
                                               
                                               ~Tecumseh

Monday, November 5, 2012

Catching Up is a LOT of Work and Hunting Part1

When I began this blog a few years ago, I was regularly freelancing for our local newspaper.  After five years of being uber aware of my surroundings, I gave up my bimonthly "Fresh Persepective' column.  Now, after a 6 month hiatus from anything creative, I find myself missing that whimsical, mental exercise. 

Actually, I can't say that I haven't 'written' anything in 6 months.  I certainly have....but most of the things I've 'written' have been in my head.  No, I don't mean that I've been talking to myself, but I do frequently find myself noticing something unique or awe inspiring and I start writing about it in my mind.  Maybe the intention is to someday put it on paper, but with schedules as they are, that never seems to happen. 

Anyway, writing, whether on paper or in my head, seems to be a passion of mine that needs to be exercised, so this is where I intend to start.  My blog.  As out of date as it is....I WILL CATCH UP AND MOVE FORWARD (even if it kills me.)  How, though, does one catch up on 6 months of happenings, vacations, and special moments without overloading the Internet and numbing one's behind?  I guess the answer will have to be one step at a time (from the present backwards in this case)! 

Here goes:

Hunting Season is the 5th season of the year in these parts.  As an archer, Jason begins his season in early September, usually a week after school starts.  If the weather is cool enough, he spends many mornings--5am or earlier--driving about 10 miles west of our house, sneaking into the bushes often shared by Grizzly Bears, and scouting for animals.  If the stars align, then he can get close enough to an animal to take a shot.  Often, he calls in an animal using a mysteriously small device he sticks in his mouth like a stick of gum.  This year the stars did not align during archery season. 

So, the backup plan is going out during rifle season, which begins the end of October.  Because of his many early mornings in the field during archery season, he often has a good idea where the elk and deer are hanging out and insights into their movement patterns.  So there is a bit of an advantage in that respect and on opening morning of rifle season, he shot his cow elk.  Whaa-hoo!  That means meat in our freezer for the next year.  Thankfully, since Jason has been successful the past few years, we haven't had to buy any beef to supplement our diet.  Red meat is strictly game. 

After hanging his elk for about 10 days, the meat was pink and tender and ready to be cut up, processed and wrapped.  This process takes about 3-4 hours and requires all hands on deck.  (warning:  Dead animal picture ahead)

Jason's Dad, Brad


The pit crew


Meat Carving 101

Creating bags with the Foodsaver


Lest you think that hunting means saying goodbye to my spouse for 2 months, these pictures are proof that hunting can be a family affair.    In this photo, we are on our way out at dusk to call in a nice bull elk.  Unfortunately, they were about a mile west of us!


Taylor and her Daddy:


Jason had an extra treat this year when his childhood friend, Rod, came out for an extended visit.  Once Rod arrived, his Uncle Kieth, also had to drive out from Idaho in case he missed the action.  On one particularly nice day between bow and rifle season, the guys went out pheasant hunting. 

Jason, Brad, Rod, Keith

 
A few days later, Jason was successful on his buck hunt.  This deer, though not overly big, will provide us with sausage for about 2 years.

 
 
As always, hunting season is a busy time of year.  It takes Jason away from us quite a few mornings and evenings, but we can truly say that we know where our food comes from and know that it was treated humanely and lovingly. 
 
To end this post, I will share an article I wrote for the Choteau Acantha regarding one of my first elk hunting experiences. 
 

It seems like eons ago that I wrote about the onset of hunting season.  I vaguely remember sharing about the odd animal noises emanating from the garage and my husband’s animated anticipation of this highly revered fifth season. At that time I didn’t have even the vaguest idea of what was to come.
 
When I put in my paperwork early this year for an elk tag, it was for one reason alone:  I like to eat.  As a practical person, I reasoned that the chances of filling our freezer would increase if I pulled a “back up“ tag just in case my husband did not get drawn.  Never did I even fathom that I would get drawn for a three day hunt on some of the choicest ground in the area.  Once the news sunk in I envisioned a freezer full of elk steaks and venison jerky.

 So it was that last week I pulled myself out of bed before dawn, donned my husband’s long johns and jeans, strapped on the bear spray and struck out with three passionate, single-minded men.  Eight miles later with not a glimpse of animal life, the herd was spotted on the side of a hill.  Like a bunch of wild banshees, the guys picked up the pace crashing through the thicket and balancing on minute tufts of grass in order to avoid the murky swamp beneath. 

Before I knew what was happening, my sixth sense kicked in and I realized that I would have to follow them or be left to wander the prairie alone.  And so I ran.  Literally, I ran through the swamp recalling my wedding vows, unable to find the clause about following my spouse through the muck and mire chasing after four legged creatures. 

One fall, then two, left me covered in rank mud, cold enough to snatch the air from my lungs.  I found myself remembering the stories of Native American hunters who returned to their tribes with new names such as “Big Hunter” or “Runs Like an Elk.”  As I followed these crazed men though the bog, I imagined the tribal chief assessing my wet clothes, heaving lungs and pronounced scowl and giving me names such as “Runs like An Elephant” or “Angry Woman Without Meat.”

As we emerged though the thicket, I caught sight of the last elk running over the hill and out of sight.  The men huddled together forming a plan as I took a moment to asses my condition.  Wet, muddy and tired I stood there and remembered the meal that I had prepared for the men that morning.  I remembered the loving way I shepherded the kids out the door to school and the cloth napkins I had sewn for the Thanksgiving Table.  I remembered the recent knitting lesson I had attended and the general warmth of the indoors. 

 
In that instant I looked my husband in the eye and declared in all seriousness, “From now on call me, “Armed Woman of Many Talents.” C'est la vie Hunting Season!

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Costumes and Candy--Oh My!

I am a stick in the mud!  No fun, no imagination, no crazy hair....nothin!  I am just not into Halloween and I have no problem admitting it.  But, for the sake of my children, I go through the obligatory steps of carving pumpkins, selecting dress-up outfits and going door to door asking for candy. 

Of all Halloween hoopla, carving pumpkins is my favorite.  This year, the kids completely took control of the event.  They requested certain shapes for their pumpkins (the local grocer was out of any sizable pumpkins so I had to make a quick trip to Great Falls for them.)  They designed the faces, cut, gutted and lit. 


 
 
 
Before they are lit, the kids "try on" their pumpkin faces.  Taylor as quite happy that hers had long hair in this shot!


 
I love how their pumpkins are unique, just like them.  Daniel went for a scary, angular "Dracula" look (left) while Taylor's was a bit softer with comical lines.

 
 

By some miraculous force of nature, the kids seem to know exactly what they want to be each year.  There is very little conflict between different characters or creatures.  This year was even easier.  We went to the local thrift store in late August in search of some school mascot gear and happened upon 2 costumes that were so perfect for each that they immediately whipped out their money ($1 each, whoo-hoo) and purchased them on the spot.  And have you ever seen a cuter Laura Ingalls Wilder?


Or a more convincing Dracula?  (On second look, I should have use dthe iron!)


Daniel LOVES this next shot, but Taylor is still a bit hesitant:



We are so lucky to live in a small community where kids can run around after dark with little to no threat from strangers.  This year Daniel got to walk with some friends while Taylor and her best friend, Bellamy, came with us.  What a bunch of cute kiddos!


Of course, after we return home, the kids have to dump, count and sort their loot.  Definitely no signs of recession here!


As bedtime approached and the sugar high quickly went south, the kids fell into bed...one in tears of exhaustion and the other just plum tuckered out.  Happy Halloween!